MY FIRST MONEY WOUND 💸
I made real money for the first time in 8th grade. I was mad for manga and so were half of my classmates.
In front of our school gate, there was a shop selling manga merchandise. Everyday kids like me drooled over those keychains, badges, and pins.
One day, I had a brilliant idea: why not try to make those keychains myself?
I went to an internet shop, browsed Yahoo images (yes, Yahoo) for artworks of the hottest manga characters, and saved them in my dad’s floppy-disk (yes, floppy-disk).
I had them colored-printed, and then ran to the old uncle who had a “laminating shop” - one rusty machine on the back of his 200-year-old bicycle - to laminate those pictures for cheap.
With my dad’s 2-hole mini puncher, I punched holes to attach keychains on them.
Tada! My products were complete.
The next day, I showed up in class with a dozen of those keychains. I sold everything in one morning.
The following days, my keychains were sold out again. Soon enough, kids from other classes started to hand me their pocket money. Lo and behold, my business had expanded!
One afternoon, I sat in the back of the class with my red kitten wallet, counting money. I had a “boyfriend” at the time and he was sitting next to me. I turned to him beaming:
“Look, how much money I made!”
He did not smile.
Instead, he gave me, my money, and my red kitten wallet a cold look. He grunted:
“Money, money! Now you always think about money! What a girl you are!”
I went silent. I was shocked and then I was ashamed. What he said confused me.
“Maybe I’m really becoming bad…” I wondered.
I stopped making keychains after that.
Now, looking back I think:
“Dude, what a dumb thing to say. You could’ve had chè with me for free, every day after school!”
At the same time, I wonder:
“He was a young boy! What must have he heard from other people to have such a negative view about women making money?!”
Until now, this story and its cultural implications still surprise me.
This is one of the stories that later shaped the way I felt towards money.
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【一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排】
All Failures & Lacks Are The Best Things to Happen to Us
三個月前,收到來自台灣客人的這封電郵時,開心和心酸交織著在心裡。
開心,因為這是一年前通過Zoom視訊的客人。他居然在我們看八字的一週年,特地寫了封感謝函給我,真有心!
心酸,因為他寫在電郵裡的低落心情,我完完全全明白。
他的經歷,是我的曾經。我當初也是很難,很久才能走出來。
有一回,我為一位芳華正茂的女子批八字時,她很用心的寫下我說的話。
論寫筆記的完整,她是我客人當中的佼佼者。
寫到一半,我注意到她的右手開始微微顫抖。我以為是空調的風太大了,冷到她,便問她要不要披巾。
她說,是她的焦慮症發作。
「我沒在兇你,也沒對你嚴厲,你為何突然焦慮?」
「我.....打從今年疫情打亂了我的計畫,我就一直很焦慮。我覺得我很沒用,同學們都前進了,只有我現在什麼都不是,亂糟糟的。我就一直很緊張,萬一我一直都是這樣,怎麼辦?」
說著,她眼眶一紅,眼淚像斷了線的珍珠鏈似的灑下來。
我的媽呀!是我的樣子長得很催淚,還是我的聲音聽起來很虐心?怎麼客人,不分男女老少,東南西北,看到我好像都很容易哭?
我抓起一張紙巾遞給她。
「所以,我不是來了嗎?你來找我,就是要問個明路,而你很幸運那麼快就看到我啦!你看你的筆記寫得多工整,多齊全。我很多客人都不如你啊!我今天的工作,就是來給你答案的。我沒有把握,也不會接你這份差事。我接了,就代表還可以補救。你照著我的指示去做,一定柳暗花明又一村。」
又另一回,一位四十多歲的媽媽請我看兒子的八字。
我在批著八字時,這位媽媽點頭認同,然後就聲淚俱下。
我轉頭看著她沈默不語的先生。我說錯了什麼嗎?太太哭成淚人,你怎麼連紙巾也不拿給她啊?
「我是個沒有用的母親,很不稱職的母親。我沒有辦法教好孩子。我很愛他,可是很多時候我都不知道要怎麼做,我就會對他發脾氣,說狠話,過後我又後悔。我忍下來,可是後來還是會一樣!」
我沒打斷她,等她的哭聲逐漸小聲後,我柔柔的說:「我來啦!我坐在你前面了。你已經看到我,就是有辦法了。你知道你自己不行,會去找辦法,就代表你願意去學習做個好媽媽啊!」
我把紙巾遞給她,再說:「不要哭了,要不然,別人看了以為是我不要借你錢,才把你弄得那麼傷心。」
曾幾何時,我們都會以外在所擁有的,來定義自己的人生是否值得自己喜歡。
從原生家庭、樣貌、健康、身型、智力、天賦等,到後來的學歷、友情、事業、財富、婚姻、子女......
哪一樣沒有,而偏偏是我們最想要的,我們就會認定自己失敗的一塌糊塗。
我認為這就是普通教育最大的問題所在。父母老師都是這樣把我們「分門別類」的。值不值得父母疼愛或向親朋戚友炫耀,也離不開那幾點。
久而久之,我們也只會以「成功」來定義自己是否有價值,甚至來衡量自己是否有活下去的勇氣。
我比較喜歡佛法的定義。我們每個人都是一尊佛,六道眾生皆有佛性,只因一時的迷,因此墮落在苦輪不停的輪迴。
可正因為我們有佛性,我們都有無窮無盡的可能。每個人的內在有著很強大的力量,等著我們遇到明師後,去發掘、探索和了解。
而這天生俱來的力量,就是你改命立命的資本。
如果人生順風順水,我們永遠不會想要出離,誤把人間當極樂,所以一定要有苦,我們才會意識到,為什麼我們會在這鬼地方?要怎麼樣才可以離開這鬼地方去到極樂?
反過來,我們都應該感恩自己遇到的挫折,因為從這些苦中,我們才能生出智慧。
沒有一個八字是完美的。一切的失敗和不足,都是最美好的安排,如此你才會有出離心,返本歸源。
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3 months ago, when I received this email from my Taiwan client, there was this feeling of bittersweetness.
I was happy because this was the client I did a Zoom consultation last June. He sent me this email on the one-year anniversary date of our Zoom call, to express his gratitude. How sweet!
On the other hand, I could relate to the emotional turmoil he felt at that point in his life.
His experience was my past. It also took me a very long time to walk out from my gloominess.
Once, I analysed the Bazi of a very young lady. She was meticulously jotting down notes as I spoke.
Her detailed note-taking skills easily took the top place among my clients.
Halfway through, I noticed her right hand was trembling slightly. I thought it was due to the cold draft from the air conditioning, so I asked if she needed a shawl.
She replied that it was her anxiety disorder acting up.
“I was not fierce or strict with you. What caused your sudden anxiety?”
“I…ever since the pandemic disrupted my plans, I have been in this state of anxiety. I kept feeling useless. All my classmates are progressing expect me. I have nothing to show for and my life is in a mess. I am very anxious. What if I continue to be like this? What am I going to do?”
As she spoke, her eyes turned red and tears started rolling down like a broken strand of pearl necklace scattering onto the ground.
Oh dear! I am beginning to wonder if I have a tear-jerker face or a heart-tormenting voice. Why do my clients, regardless of gender and age, North South or East West, seem to cry easily when they see me?
I grabbed a piece of tissue and handed it to her.
“Ain’t I here already? You came to me for a roadmap and you are very lucky to see me so soon. Look at how precise and neat your notes are! Many of my clients aren’t even on par with you. My job today is to give you answers. If I didn’t have the confidence, I would not have taken up your request. Now that I did, that means there is still hope. If you follow my instructions, you will see things looking up very soon.”
On another occasion, a mother in her forties came to me for her son’s Bazi consultation.
As I was analysing, the mother nodded her head in agreement. The next thing I know, she started weeping loudly.
I turned to look at her husband, who had been silent all along. Did I say something wrong? And hello, your wife was crying. Why weren’t you gentleman enough to give her a tissue paper?
“I am a useless mother. I am incompetent. I do not know how to teach my son well. I love my son very much. But many times, I do not know what to do and thus I flare up at him and speak harshly. I always regret afterwards. I tried enduring but it still ends badly!”
I did not interrupt her and waited for her cries to soften, before speaking gently, “I’m here! I’m already sitting in front of you. You are looking at me now and that means help is here. You know that you are incompetent, so you went looking for solutions. That means you are willing to learn how to be a better mother!”
I handed a piece of tissue and said, “Don’t cry anymore, otherwise, other patrons will think that it’s because I refuse to lend you money.”
Since young, we have been using external possessions to define whether our lives are worth liking.
The family we are born into, our looks, health, body shape, intellect, talents, and then we move on to compare our academics, friendships, career, wealth, marriage and children.
If we are lacking in the area we covet most, we grade our lives as a failure.
I think this is the biggest problem in societal education. Our parents and teachers categorized us that way. Whether we as children are worthy of their love and bragging, depends on the few points above too.
Thus over time, we can only use the term “success” to determine whether we are of value, for some people, whether they should live on to take their next breath.
I very much prefer the definition in Buddhism. We are all Buddhas. Each and every sentient being in the six realms has a Buddha nature in them. But they got lost momentarily and fell into the endless wheel of reincarnation.
Yet, because of our Buddha nature, we have an unlimited source of potential. Every one of us has a very powerful strength inside us. It is just waiting for us to meet an accomplished teacher, so that we have the tools to explore and understand it:
And this strength that we are born with is the capital for us to transform and establish our own destiny.
If life is smooth-sailing, we would never want to leave and would mistake this mortal realm for Pureland. Thus, we all need sufferings, to realise that we should break out of this hell of a place. There has to be a better world somewhere. So how we get there?
We should, in fact, be grateful for all the setbacks and failures we have. Because it is from these sufferings, our wisdom arise:
No single Bazi is perfect. Every failure and lack we experience is the best arrangement for us, so that the heart of renunciation will arise in us and we will return to where we came from.
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【尋找消暑妙法】夏天踩單車時想食冰菠蘿
⭐運動後切勿立即沖凍水涼
⭐咖啡茶類酒類都有利尿作用
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三大消暑壞習慣
夏日熱辣辣,以下是你常用的消暑方法嗎?當心有些消暑方法會傷身體啊!
🙅🏻♂️ 吃冰 / 喝凍飲
有些人夏天離不開凍飲,甚至把冰塊含在嘴裡慢慢咬,冰塊確有消暑功效但要適可而止,凍飲屬生冷食物,多喝會損傷陽氣,脾胃運化水液的功能全憑陽氣推動,故凍飲會使脾胃運化水液功能減退,令寒濕內生,會慢慢形成小肚腩,亦容易導致經痛、水腫、黑眼圈、臉色暗啞等問題。
⭕ 消暑好習慣:喝一杯西瓜汁或椰青水,消暑解渴。
🙅🏻♂️ 對着風口直吹
夏天消暑少不了風扇與冷氣機,踏入室內立刻迎頭對着高速冷風其實亦屬風邪的一種,天氣炎熱令毛孔張開,風邪多從皮毛而入,容易導致頭痛、咳嗽、鼻敏感、甚至面癱等症狀。
⭕消暑好習慣:風扇或冷氣風口不直接吹着身體,距離也不宜太近。
🙅🏻♂️ 打大赤肋
你家男士夏天在家會不穿衣服嗎?相信不少人因為夏天炎熱而「打大赤肋」,要注意流汗後容易著涼。衣物有防曬功效,外出時不穿衣服要慎防曬傷。
⭕消暑好習慣:帶備上衣流汗後更換,穿著透氣吸汗的衣物。
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Three bad habits to beat the heat
Have you used the following methods to relieve heat? Be careful, you might do more harm than good!
🙅🏻♂️ Drink iced/cold beverages
Some people cannot live without cold drinks, and they even enjoy chewing on ice cubes. Though ice cubes might help relieve heat, they should not be consumed excessively. Iced or cold drinks are raw and cold foods, and they can damage the yang energy. The spleen and stomach rely on the yang energy to circulate fluid in the body. Hence, drinking cold beverages can undermine the functions of these organs. This will further cause cold and dampness to accumulate in the body, and symptoms like abdominal bloating, menstrual pain, water retention, dark eye circles, and a lackluster complexion might develop.
⭕ Tip: drink a glass of watermelon or coconut juice to clear heat and quench thirst
🙅🏻♂️ Enjoy the coolness in front of the air conditioner vent
Fans and air conditioners are essential during summer. Standing in front of the cold air can cause the pathogenic factor of the wind to invade our body when the hot weather has expanded our pores. Individuals who do this might cough and experience headache, nasal allergy, or even facial paralysis.
⭕ Tip: keep a distance from the vent and avoid direct cold air from the air conditioner
🙅🏻♂️ Be topless
Do men in your family wear a shirt at home during summer? Many men tend to strip to be topless because they cannot stand the hot summer weather. Be careful not to catch a cold after sweating. The sun can easily damage the skin when we do not have our clothes when we are outdoors.
⭕ Tip: bring extra set of clothes to change; wear sweat-absorbing clothes that have high air permeability
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DIY Replica Food Kit - Matcha shaved ice.
This is not edible.
Replica foods: a tradition of Japanese food culture.
In the majority of restaurants in Japan, they put plastic food displays in their front window in order to display their menu in an easy to understand way.
This kit gives you a simple way to experience making these food displays.
食品サンプルキット 宇治金時のかき氷作り
イチゴとマンゴーのかき氷と作って今回は宇治金時の食品サンプル作りです。基本的には前のフルーツのかき氷と同じ作り方なのですが、小豆をのせる前に接着剤と混ぜる工程が加わっています。
三つ作ってもまだもっと作りたいと思えるほど楽しめました。手軽に作れるのでお勧めです!
材料と道具は底上げに使うティッシュ以外キットにすべて含まれています。こちらのキットにもイチゴのかき氷同様にカード立て用クリップが入っていますが、氷に取り付けない方が雰囲気があっていいかなと思ったので取り付けませんでした。
◆DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry shaved ice 食品サンプルキット イチゴのかき氷作り
https://youtu.be/jmNQFBYfsOU
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Blue Hawaii Parfait 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ブルーハワイパフェ作り
https://youtu.be/RvLD1_QZ5Oo
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry ice cream 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん イチゴアイスクリーム作ってみた!
https://youtu.be/k5WNQuE9zms
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Curry and Rice 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん カレーライス作り
https://youtu.be/sv-uQPdcd7Y
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Chahan (Fried Rice) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん チャーハン作り
https://youtu.be/5qMj1vO3fqs
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Ramen 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 醤油ラーメン作り
https://youtu.be/epS3H501sKU
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Dandan noodles 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 担々麺作り
https://youtu.be/-_gp-q4GtmE
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Hiyashi Chuka (Cold Ramen) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 冷やし中華作り
https://youtu.be/baF-YziVOH8
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Bear 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ビール作り
https://youtu.be/m-_5Et-4spM
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Sample'n Playlist 食品サンプル製作キットさんぷるん再生リスト
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJup9VY8fUN7dROMtaHAPrBYS1lSohuPV
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DIY Replica Food Kit - Mango shaved ice.
This is not edible.
Replica foods: a tradition of Japanese food culture.
In the majority of restaurants in Japan, they put plastic food displays in their front window in order to display their menu in an easy to understand way.
This kit gives you a simple way to experience making these food displays.
食品サンプルキット マンゴーかき氷作り
少し前に公開したイチゴのかき氷の食品サンプル作りに続いて今回作る食品サンプルはマンゴーのかき氷です。
イチゴのかき氷の動画ではシロップの色に衝撃が走った視聴者さんもいたようで、氷に沿えたイチゴのクオリティと合わせて割と低評価な食品サンプルでしたがこのマンゴーはどうでしょうね。再びシロップショックとなるのでしょうか?まだ宇治金時さんが後ろに控えているだけにドキドキです(笑)
材料と道具は底上げに使うティッシュ以外キットにすべて含まれています。こちらのキットにもイチゴのかき氷同様にカード立て用クリップが入っていますが、氷に取り付けない方が雰囲気があっていいかなと思ったので取り付けませんでした。
◆DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry shaved ice 食品サンプルキット イチゴのかき氷作り
https://youtu.be/jmNQFBYfsOU
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Blue Hawaii Parfait 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ブルーハワイパフェ作り
https://youtu.be/RvLD1_QZ5Oo
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry ice cream 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん イチゴアイスクリーム作ってみた!
https://youtu.be/k5WNQuE9zms
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Curry and Rice 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん カレーライス作り
https://youtu.be/sv-uQPdcd7Y
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Chahan (Fried Rice) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん チャーハン作り
https://youtu.be/5qMj1vO3fqs
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Ramen 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 醤油ラーメン作り
https://youtu.be/epS3H501sKU
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Dandan noodles 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 担々麺作り
https://youtu.be/-_gp-q4GtmE
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Hiyashi Chuka (Cold Ramen) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 冷やし中華作り
https://youtu.be/baF-YziVOH8
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Bear 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ビール作り
https://youtu.be/m-_5Et-4spM
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Sample'n Playlist 食品サンプル製作キットさんぷるん再生リスト
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLJup9VY8fUN7dROMtaHAPrBYS1lSohuPV
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#かき氷
#食品サンプル
#Replica Food kit
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DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry shaved ice.
This is not edible.
Replica foods: a tradition of Japanese food culture.
In the majority of restaurants in Japan, they put plastic food displays in their front window in order to display their menu in an easy to understand way.
This kit gives you a simple way to experience making these food displays.
食品サンプルキット イチゴのかき氷作り
これまでに作ったものとは違うメーカーの食品サンプルキットをAmazonで見つけたので購入して作ってみました。
カップに「氷」の文字が入っているのが雰囲気があってポイント高いですね。他にマンゴーかき氷と宇治金時のかき氷キットを同時購入したので今月中にそちらの動画もアップします。
材料と道具は底上げに使うティッシュ以外キットにすべて含まれています。ちなみにその中にカード立て用クリップも入っていますが、ないほうが雰囲気があっていいかなと思ったので取り付けませんでした。
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Blue Hawaii Parfait 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ブルーハワイパフェ作り
https://youtu.be/RvLD1_QZ5Oo
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Strawberry ice cream 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん イチゴアイスクリーム作ってみた!
https://youtu.be/k5WNQuE9zms
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Curry and Rice 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん カレーライス作り
https://youtu.be/sv-uQPdcd7Y
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Chahan (Fried Rice) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん チャーハン作り
https://youtu.be/5qMj1vO3fqs
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Ramen 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 醤油ラーメン作り
https://youtu.be/epS3H501sKU
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Dandan noodles 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 担々麺作り
https://youtu.be/-_gp-q4GtmE
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Hiyashi Chuka (Cold Ramen) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん 冷やし中華作り
https://youtu.be/baF-YziVOH8
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Bear 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん ビール作り
https://youtu.be/m-_5Et-4spM
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit - Shaved ice (Blue Hawaii) 食品サンプルキットさんぷるん かき氷ブルーハワイ作り
https://youtu.be/BUfWKetaZ6k
◆ DIY Replica Food Kit Sample'n Playlist 食品サンプル製作キットさんぷるん再生リスト
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